You see that girl you are dating now, she has a higher chance of making it in life faster than you.
This is why you shouldn't spend all your youthfulness building relationship with a woman.
The truth is she can easily walk out of that relationship and go ahead and marry an already made man, a man who has figured his life out, who has money and enough resources and on the strength of her marriage with the already made man she has made it in life.
Whereas, you as a man is own your own, nobody is coming to save you, nobody cares about you, people don't even love you until you have value.
You see why investing all your youthfulness with a woman can be very dangerous and unhealthy for your future.
Women has more leverage early in life than man, like this like this, she's already winning you, the world is more fair to her than you and this is why you need to focus more on your purpose than you are focusing on her.
If you fail to make it in life, you will suffer in her hand, she will finally dump you for another man who didn't fail to make it.
Forget all those romantic bullishit she use to assure you " that she will be with you forever" its a lie, when jungle mature she will disappear.
The truth is most women are just managing your brokeness because they don't have a better option yet the moment a better option present itself she will abandon you and forget all your sacrifices and all her words, women knows nothing like loyalty.
This is why as a young man, you don't have to spend all your time focusing and chasing women up and down, women are big distraction to a man who is not purpose driven.
They will drain you and leave you.
Hustle for yourself, take your life more serious, read books, learn skills, develop and harness your masculine power, be more focus on becoming a better man, invest in your mind at the end of this is the only thing that will never leave you through thick and thin.
Be wise.